What do you say about yourself? Are you a happy person? If your reply is
in negative then you need to think over it. All your education, intelligence,
money, status and success is meaningless if you are not living a happy life.
What is the reason of living if a person is not happy with his life?
I firmly believe that it is the right of every person to live a happy
life but most people are not aware how to. Psychologists believe that 90% of
our happiness depends on us while 10% depends on external circumstances, on
which we have no or little control. If we are not living a happy life then it
means that we are depriving ourselves of our 90% happiness due to our own
narrow or negative thinking.
Always keep in mind that happiness has nothing to do with money or circumstances.
I have seen rich people living unhappy life and poor people living happy life.
In fact, it is the inner state of one's mind which keeps a person happy. You
need to train your mind to be happy. If you decide to be happy no one can
snatch your happiness. Some people are so much determined to be happy that even
living in the worst circumstances, they manage to keep themselves happy. I
salute such positive people.
I must stress that the top most reason of being unhappy is the negative
thinking of a person. Negativity can ruin a person's life beyond imagination.
My motto is "Positive Thinking, Happy Living". I am of the view that
if you think positively, you can live happily, no matter whatever your
circumstances. It is up to you how do you want to spend your life. How do you
see, feel and live your life. How do you treat yourself, being a happy or an
unhappy person.
It is a painful fact that the number of unhappy people in this world is
increasing at a much higher pace than the happy people. On a daily basis, you
see unhappy people everywhere, in the streets and in any business or
organization, whereas, happy, helpful and cheerful people are rare to find.
Because of the unsatisfied human nature, we are not in the habit of
appreciating what we have. We have interlinked our happiness with the
accumulation of material things and this is our biggest mistake. Things do not
give happiness, thinking does.
To be happy is much easier than you think. All that you need is to
cultivate the seeds of happiness in your mind. Why depend on others or
circumstances? Why not create your own world, your own joy and your own
happiness. No one else can make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Be the
master of your own fate and the master of your own happiness. Choose to be
happy. Bury your worries deep in the soil and start digging out the gems of
happiness from there.
Start living your life as a happy person. A happy person gets happiness
by giving and sharing. Share your fortunes with the less fortunate people. The
more you give the more you get happiness in abundance and that is the beauty of
giving. A kind hearted person is a happy person. Be a kind person. Be a helpful
person. Appreciate the good qualities of other people.
Start your day with a positive state of mind. Every morning bow your
head before God in gratitude for all His blessings. Be grateful to God for
being in good health. Spend some time in praying and early morning meditation.
Be the master of your own destiny and the torch bearer of your
happiness. Always keep in mind that a happy person:
- fights negativity with full force
- lives a purposeful and meaningful life
- is an honest and hardworking person
- is a kind and helpful person
- is a creative person who can create something out of nothing
- spends some time alone in meditation and establishing a link with God
Not only live your life as a happy person but also spread happiness.
Making other people happy is not only a great service of mankind but also a
source of seeking inner happiness.
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